As Greg explained to you repeatedly, a softfork won't cause a
non-upgraded full node to start accepting blocks that create more
subsidy than is valid.
That's very different security from an SPV node, and as Greg also explained, SPV nodes could be much more secure than bitcoinj nodes (they could, for example, validate the coinbase transaction of every block).
Can you give an example of an attack in which a non-upgraded full node
wallet is defrauded with BIP65 but could not with the hardfork
alternative (that nobody seems to be willing to implement)?
Please, don't assume 0 confirmation transactions or similar
unreasonable assumptions (ie see section 11 "Calculations" of the
Bitcoin whitepaper).