However, there hasnt been any discussion on this
mailing list in several years as far as I can tell.
Certainly a consensus in this kind of technical community should be a basic requirement for any serious commitment to blocksize increase.
Long-term incentive compatibility requires that there be some fee pressure, and that blocks be relatively consistently full or very nearly full.
What we see today are
transactions enjoying next-block confirmations with nearly zero pressure
to include any fee at all (though many do because it makes wallet code
simpler).
This allows the well-funded Bitcoin ecosystem to continue building
systems which rely on transactions moving quickly into blocks while
pretending these systems scale.