... And will certainly NEVER have if we can't solve the capacity problem SOON. 

In a former life, I was a capacity planner for Bank of America's mid-range server group. We had one hard and fast rule. When you are typically exceeding 75% of capacity on a given metric, it's time to expand capacity. Period. You don't do silly things like adjusting the business model to disincentivize use. Unless there's some flaw in the system and it's leaking resources, if usage has increased to the point where you are at or near the limits of capacity, you expand capacity. It's as simple as that, and I've found that same rule fits quite well in a number of systems. 

In Bitcoin, we're not leaking resources. There's no flaw. The system is performing as intended. Usage is increasing because it works so well, and there is huge potential for future growth as we identify more uses and attract more users. There might be a few technical things we can do to reduce consumption, but the metric we're concerned with right now is how many transactions we can fit in a block. We've broken through the 75% marker and are regularly bumping up against the 100% limit.

It is time to stop debating this and take action to expand capacity. The only questions that should remain are how much capacity do we add, and how soon can we do it. Given that most existing computer systems and networks can easily handle 20MB blocks every 10 minutes, and given that that will increase capacity 20-fold, I can't think of a single reason why we can't go to 20MB as soon as humanly possible. And in a few years, when the average block size is over 15MB, we bump it up again to as high as we can go then without pushing typical computers or networks beyond their capacity. We can worry about ways to slow down growth without affecting the usefulness of Bitcoin as we get closer to the hard technical limits on our capacity.

And you know what else? If miners need higher fees to accommodate the costs of bigger blocks, they can configure their nodes to only mine transactions with higher fees.. Let the miners decide how to charge enough to pay for their costs. We don't need to cripple the network just for them.